Anonymous asked: What is love to you?
Love is warm and fuzzy and happy. Love is having someone make me laugh and smile for a change instead of me constantly carrying that torch. Love is one am I cant sleep and I miss you phone calls/texts. Love is having his arms wrapped around my torso with sweet kisses on the neck. Love is the first time you make and only break eye contact for kisses. Love is wanting to be a better person if not for you, at least for them. Love is letting someone in to the darkest parts of your mind and body and them not flinch or bat an eyelash. Love is I’m sorry I didn’t mean to hurt you. Love is let’s laugh about all the old times and how silly we use to be. Love is not having to tell someone but they know exactly where it hurts. Love is allowing yourself to be vulnerable and exposed. Love is pain. Love is…. not enough.
allieg0reyxo asked: To all you Anons with guy issues, my best advice is to just wait. Not to be clichè but it's true. Guys are developed much more later than women, it's all in science! Work on yourselves and know yourself, this means your emotions and what actually you love. Until they mature and you love yourselves there can't be a stable relationship. You're just setting yourself up for disappointment and tears. It fucking makes me sick to see women pining over men that could give a shit.
^^^This This This This THIS!!!! I promise guys/girls will always be there. For real work on yourself and bring more positive than negative in your life. Work on you. Get to where you want/need to be and the rest will fall into space. It might seem like the end of the world now but in ten years you will tell the story to a group of great friends over drinks or dinner and laugh about the whole situation and how dramatic everything was. Until then, just hold on.
Anonymous asked: Thought I was in love with my best friend of three years and he told me I was delusional for thinking he would like me. Stopped talking to him for a few months, lost a bunch of weight/got hot, and then called him out of the blue and we fucked. It's been three months since the last time we spoke, and I know he asks my friends about me. I fucking miss him, but he just blocked me on instagram and won't add me back on facebook. Should I talk to him or just forget all about it?
Uh no fuck that asshole. No one deserves to be treated or talked to like that. If he was really so concerned with what you are doing he would come to you not your friends. Just ugh that pisses me off. Absolutely positively forget about him because no one wants or deserves that bullshit. Time will make it easier but you for real are not going to get a happy ending of any means there. There are too many people in this world to waste your time on someone who doesnt want to share their time and shows no interest in pursuing you. You can do better. You are better.Don’t sweat the small stuff though because we all hook up with a complete asshole at least once. Dont even put yourself through that. Just ugh I hate hearing shit like this because I would never treat anyone like that and you need to not let anyone treat you like that ja dig?
Anonymous asked: how do you get over being let down / disappointed ?
me personally? I do drugs and fuck a lot. Drugs make me happy. Sex makes me happy. You cant be said or disappointed when you are riding wave after wave of ecstasy and euphoria. Not that I am encouraging anyone to go out and do drugs and fuck and be like me. Just saying what I do. It’s good to talk about it. Sometimes though you have to find something new or different to get ecited about and you will be so focused on that the other takes a back seat. You should talk to someone. Coming to me is a good start. I dont know your situation but I’m not stranger to being let down and disappointed. Just remember to breathe because you are a beautiful, unique, lovable human being and the actions of others do not define us. Only you can define, accept and love yourself.